Category Archives: real life

in conversation

There are unbelievable amounts of tschotschkes around our house that A and I have been collecting since our respective childhoods. Or as they’re known in the Hungarian language: dust-collection devices. I’ve been schlepping mine with me from continent to continent and country to country and plan to do so wherever life throws me. They are [...]

New morning

I want to record how I feel this morning, after the election. But everything I can think of writing is a bit inadequate.
Nevertheless.
It is one of those rare occasions when what should have happened did: Barack Hussein Obama is our new President-Elect. It is one of those rare occasions when what should matter does: he [...]

more firsts

Faustina laughed out loud for the first time today. I was giving her a bath tonight, trying to imitate what her father does (he’s away on business for a few days - so I’ve taken over bath duty), squirting water on her belly with the crocodile bath toy. And she laughed. And laughed again. It [...]

stimulating

I got my economic stimulus check, which was - naturally - for an amount far less than the so-called $600 minimum. Because, you know, I was adjuncting and finishing my Ph.D. and so my income in 2007 was less than the amount they figured as the baseline for the stimulus. Because if you make less [...]

for Mother’s Day

I knew I was pregnant just a few days after I conceived. There’s no magic to it: there were only two possible occasions when it could have happened. And I could tell that something had happened: my body felt different. Nothing bad or strange, just… different. There was a fullness to it, something it never [...]

hair

Not mine, B’s. He got a haircut today and this is what he looks like now:

He was quite worn out after it as if getting his hair cut was just the most tiring experience ever. He had to stand on top of the picnic table and be relatively still for it, in exchange for treats. [...]

floods & other expensive pastimes

One unexpected side effect of the flooding in our basement was that our dog nearly killed himself. We learned out that emergency care facilities try to charge you for the air your pet breathes while he’s there. But what’s worse, he was in really bad shape, and being as we are sentimental fools, we [...]

Friday morning

“Life is like an onion: You peel it off one layer at a time, and sometimes you weep.” - Carl Sandburg
But not all weeping is sad.

on a personal (albeit vague) note

The other day I finally got up the nerve to tell off someone who really pissed me off about a year ago. I know, I shouldn’t have waited so long but… I hate telling people off, and I firmly believe that patience and kindness are more effective methods of social interaction than hostility. And usually [...]

changes

They are hard. Even if they’re long-awaited & long-desired ones. I’ve been looking forward to working on a particular book project for months and can’t seem to get started with it. Bits and pieces - yes, but nothing that feels like real progress. I blame it on the move: my work spaces got disrupted and [...]